My Spanish speaking students are teaching me. A part of vision screenings is a hidden picture of a butterfly (Stereopsis), and I love to hear them say mariposa.
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Finding Strength in Tragedy
In times of tragedy, I found solace in helping others and taking each day as it comes. The journey may be arduous, but I persevered, holding onto hope that tomorrow would bring a brighter day.
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5th Anniversary of my 3rd Kidney Transplant
L. Myers MSN, RNC, CSN
Today marks the 5th Anniversary of my 3rd Kidney Transplant, reflecting the significance of dates in my life. My journey began with my 1st Kidney transplant on 02/05/2005, graciously donated by a 5-year-old. The 2nd transplant followed on 03/19/2009, a gift from living donor and friend Lisa Moe. Lastly, my 3rd transplant on 02/21/2019, a precious gift from a 24-year-old teacher named Vanessa.
I am immensely grateful for the unwavering support and blessings from God. A year ago, I started this Blog as a source of encouragement for those enduring challenging times, to inspire them to hold onto their faith in God and never lose hope.
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Me to my 10 year old self. There will be storms but you will get through them with God.
Things I find challenging
This was a question to all bloggers. The thing I find challenging is sometimes overthinking things that are so simple until someone questions or tells you what they would have done. It causes you to second guess yourself. Stick to your gut and stay with it! Some people mean well, and others have motives. What if you’re right?

Self Care
Remember that self care is not selfish. L Myers MSN RNC CSN
“ʙʏ ᴛᴀᴋɪɴɢ ᴄᴀʀᴇ ᴏғ ᴍʏsᴇʟғ ɪ ʜᴀᴠᴇ sᴏ ᴍᴜᴄʜ ᴍᴏʀᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴏғғᴇʀ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡᴏʀʟᴅ ᴛʜᴀɴ ɪ ᴅᴏ ᴡʜᴇɴ ɪ ᴀᴍ ʀᴜɴɴɪɴɢ ᴏɴ ᴇᴍᴘᴛʏ.” Anonymous
A School Nurse’s Well-Deserved Day Off
Friday marked the end of the school year for elementary students, bringing a sense of relief to the school nurses who often grapples with a multitude of responsibilities. Eager to embrace the much-needed break, I devoted the day to rejuvenating my spirit. My self-care routine included indulging in a hydrafacial, tidying up my brows, visiting a plant store, and exploring a new boutique for accessories. The day concluded on a delightful note, as my husband and I savored the enchanting Christmas lights display at Dilworth Park. All in all, it was a truly gratifying first day off.
Don’t forget to take care of yourself. https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8x1Qgkn/
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Lessons
I saw this post on social media and I had to share. It feels great to leave people where they are.
When people act shady, allow them. When people betray your trust, allow them. But never, ever sink to their level. Their choices are a direct reflection of who they are, not who you are. No matter how angry, hurt, or disappointed you may be – do not allow them to make you bitter. Be better. React with love. Sometimes that means retaliating with understanding and compassion; other times it means retaliating with acceptance and sheer silence. Whatever it is, make sure it benefits you as a human being instead of lowering you into a position which you would rather not be in. Normal people dont go around destroying other human beings. Only those who are hurt, lost, and confused cause pain. Don’t be one of them. Just take the lessons and move on gracefully.

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Appreciation
Have I’ve noticed that when you consistently show kindness to someone, it becomes their expectation. It might seem like the appreciation diminishes over time because the receiver perceives this as part of the routine. But fear not, my friend! The solution is simple: continue being your wonderful self, but perhaps dial it back just a smidge. The beauty of giving is that it brings a boost of euphoria to both parties involved. “Thank you” goes a long way, so never become complacent with acts of kindness.
Respect your elders
After work, I had some errands to run and my 1st stop was CVS to pick up my medication. I saw the cutest elderly woman, she was walking with a cane. I asked her to go in front of me and she asked if she could sit so I could call her when it was her turn. I called out to her to let her know that she was next. She struggled with her cane and I felt so bad for her I told her to lean on the cart so that she was balanced. She thanked me and told me that she buried her 2 daughters.
I told her it was my mother’s birthday, how much I missed her, and that I had 3 consecutive dreams. She said well maybe she’s trying to tell you something and I said well I’m tired because she is wearing me out. We laughed together. As we age society treats it as a loss of worth. Listening shows interest, caring, and understanding.
Those who respect the elderly pave their own road toward success.” -Unknown

Just say No
Don’t feel guilty saying no. You don’t have to be obliged to give a reason unless you want to. When you have multiple things going on in your life, other’s commitments, work, exhaustion, and chronic illness. It becomes too much.🙌🏾

