L.Myers MSN RNC CSN

My doctor calls me Buddy, when he calls it’s from a blocked number but I know it’s him. “Hey Buddy, I need a favor. “I have a patient with 30% kidney function requesting  to speak with another patient about their experiences with dialysis and transplant. Could you speak with him about the modes of dialysis? He’s a doctor and he’s really nervous. I always think it’s better coming from someone who’s been through it”. I will always do this for anyone, I know what it’s like to receive a diagnosis of renal failure and all that comes along with it.

I called and addressed him by his title and told him who I was. He stated that it was fine to be on a first-name basis. He asked about my experiences with dialysis, specifically the time it takes, different modes, and transplants. We spoke for 30-45 minutes and he asked if I was married. I said yes, he asked if my husband would mind if we spoke from time to time and I replied no he would not mind. Then he said, “Would you mind checking on me every once in a while? I’m married but my wife is having medical issues. I’ll need a caretaker and this may be too much for her, my son will be moving back to help me. He is doubtful about his eligibility for a transplant because he is 75. I advised him to make 2 appointments for listing, one in his state and the other out of state at a major hospital with the rate of success with renal transplants.

Age can be a factor to be a candidate for transplant. Other factors include the length of time on dialysis, and other comorbidities (cancer, obesity, infection, obesity, smoking). It’s always best to speak with your nephrology team.

“At the end, it’s not about what you have or even what you’ve accomplished. It’s about who you’ve lifted up, who you’ve made better. It’s about what you’ve given back.” Denzel Washington

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