Music makes me feel nostalgic. I can suddenly hear an old song I haven’t heard in over 20 years. I remember the words. I also recall the feelings from that time.
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Okay, ok, K, Kk
Too many people use the word “okay,” and it has now developed into different versions. It’s an incomplete sentence to me. Okay, what? Use your words.
A Random Act of Kindness
I was ordering some burgers from Five Guys, and I happened to glance at one of the employees. He was a handsome young man with rich, warm skin and a bright, radiant smile. When I noticed the fistula in his lower forearm, our eyes met and I asked him about his dialysis journey, offering support and sharing my own successful experience with kidney transplants. He mentioned that he was only listed at one hospital, so I encouraged him to consider listing at another center and provided him with information. It was a truly uplifting and heartwarming encounter.
What activities do you lose yourself in?
Dailyprompt 1877
Getting into house plants has brought so much joy and fulfillment into my life. Before, I couldn’t fully indulge in this hobby because of my cat. However, after my dear Chloe passed away, I embraced the world of houseplants, and it’s been an incredibly rewarding journey. I’ve become fully immersed in their care and seeing them thrive brings me so much happiness. I guess you could say I’ve become a plant momma, and it’s truly wonderful. 😊
A risk that I do not regret.
No regrets
After 31 years of service, the hospital I worked at closed down. Despite my qualifications, the transition to a new hospital proved challenging, as it became evident that they were not keen on hiring older employees. Throughout three separate interviews, I did not feel valued or welcomed. During the final interview, I was even asked about my current salary, a question that caught me off guard despite its standard nature. Moreover, the interviewer expressed consideration for offering a wage $10 lower than my current earnings and inquired about my union membership.
In response, I graciously declined the offer and made it clear that I would share my experience with others. Subsequently, I discovered that the hospital had chosen to hire younger nurses. Despite the initial disappointment, I can confidently say that I have no regrets. It was undoubtedly the best decision of my life. This experience has taught me the importance of being prepared to assertively decline opportunities that do not align with my worth and values.
My quote to live by,
“Service to others is the rent you pay for your room here on earth.” Muhammad Ali
What’s my dream job?
I am fulfilling my dream as a nurse, and I am passionate about educating and supporting individuals living with kidney disease. Despite facing multiple kidney transplants and complications, I am determined to make a positive impact. Yesterday, I had the opportunity to share my personal journey at a men’s health seminar. Despite initial nerves, my words flowed, and I captivated the small audience. This experience has opened doors for me to speak at other events and organizations. My friend’s encouragement to share my story has proven to be incredibly meaningful.
“The comeback is always stronger than the set back.”
Dr. Penny
What is the one word that describes you? Warrior
The one word that describes me is warrior. Tomorrow I will celebrate a gift from my Irish sister, Lisa Moe. She donated blood and a kidney to me on March 19, 2009. I can’t believe it’s been 15 years. We are nurses, with the same 1st name (Lisa), initials, birthdays 7 days apart, worked together in a labor, and delivery unit with wonderful people. The kidney was a success for hours and I lost it due to hemorrhage. She gave her kidney and numerous blood exchanges so that I could be better. She always told me that she was going to make me Irish. Everyone at our work spoke about this beautiful selfless act. We even celebrated the day before with a pre-kidney celebration at Alma de Cuba.
We were an example of what shouldn’t have happened. Hospital Public Relations approached us about doing a story because it was a story of love. A love for one another and for all of the people involved. The hospital staff rallied for us as a family and not as coworkers. We learned a lot about what should have happened e.g. post-care of the recipient, psychological support, and continuation of care. I had a successful 3rd kidney transplant in 2019, but I will never forget how this event affected so many people around us. People knew our story. Moe always said to me, “Always tell our story.” I have kept that promise and will continue to for the rest of my life.
Retrospectively, there was still a gift and a feeling that I will never feel at another place of employment. We are family. I love you, Moe, and I’m forever grateful to you for your gifts of love and friendship.
“Vulnerability is the birthplace of love, belonging, joy, courage, empathy, and creativity. It is the source of hope, empathy, accountability, and authenticity. If we want greater clarity in our purpose or deeper and more meaningful spiritual lives, vulnerability is the path.”
Brené Brown
ᴛʜᴇ ᴅᴇᴠᴇʟᴏᴘᴍᴇɴᴛ ᴏғ ᴄᴏɴғɪᴅᴇɴᴄᴇ
Who is the most confident person you know?
The most confident person that I know is me. My confidence was developed over several years. I’ve had set back with my health- 2 failed kidney transplants, cancer, and several skin disorders. After experiencing this there are only 2 choices, depression or moving forward.
I chose to keep moving by pursuing my dreams and most importantly learning to say no and mean it. If there’s something that you don’t want to do, say no without making excuses. To me that exudes confidence.
Unlimited watches
What movies or TV series have you watched more than 5 times?
Claudine, Breakfast at Tiffany’s, The Way We Were, The Wire, The Corner, Juice, Columbo, The Rockford Files, The Flintstones, Once Upon a Time In America, Dog Day Afternoon, The Godfather I &2, Heat, Carlito’s Way, To Sir With Love, Lady Sings the Blues, Mahagony, Funny Girl, Foxy Brown, It’s a Mad Mad Mad World, and many more.
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