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Lessons

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I saw this post on social media and I had to share. It feels great to leave people where they are.

When people act shady, allow them. When people betray your trust, allow them. But never, ever sink to their level. Their choices are a direct reflection of who they are, not who you are. No matter how angry, hurt, or disappointed you may be – do not allow them to make you bitter. Be better. React with love. Sometimes that means retaliating with understanding and compassion; other times it means retaliating with acceptance and sheer silence. Whatever it is, make sure it benefits you as a human being instead of lowering you into a position which you would rather not be in. Normal people dont go around destroying other human beings. Only those who are hurt, lost, and confused cause pain. Don’t be one of them. Just take the lessons and move on gracefully.

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Appreciation

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Have I’ve noticed that when you consistently show kindness to someone, it becomes their expectation. It might seem like the appreciation diminishes over time because the receiver perceives this as part of the routine. But fear not, my friend! The solution is simple: continue being your wonderful self, but perhaps dial it back just a smidge. The beauty of giving is that it brings a boost of euphoria to both parties involved. “Thank you” goes a long way, so never become complacent with acts of kindness.

𝗙𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽𝘀

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I’ve had several friends, associates, people in my life who I became close with. The saying is true, friendships are about seasons, reasons, and timing. You’ll know when it’s time to move on. It may become draining, uncomfortable, and exhausting to the point of dreading a conversation with the person. You have to love yourself, wish them well, and move on.

ғᴏʀᴇᴠᴇʀ ɪs ᴛᴏᴅᴀʏ, ᴛᴏᴍᴏʀʀᴏᴡ ɪs ɴᴏᴛ ᴘʀᴏᴍɪsᴇᴅ

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I was restless the other night and woke up at 2:15 am with a thought: “Forever is today, tomorrow is not promised.” Last year my family experienced the unexpected loss of my niece. I couldn’t imagine the pain my sister experienced; the loss of a child is the worst thing a parent could endure. It brought us closer.

There has also been an increase in the death of classmates. Death is a reality for everyone, making you question your mortality. I have been close to death due to complications from a surgical procedure. Tomorrow is not promised, so live your life today. Tell and show your loved ones and friends how much they mean to you. My Aunt Delores once said to me, “Love is an action.”

Helping Others Helps You

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L.Myers MSN RNC CSN

My doctor calls me Buddy, when he calls it’s from a blocked number but I know it’s him. “Hey Buddy, I need a favor. “I have a patient with 30% kidney function requesting  to speak with another patient about their experiences with dialysis and transplant. Could you speak with him about the modes of dialysis? He’s a doctor and he’s really nervous. I always think it’s better coming from someone who’s been through it”. I will always do this for anyone, I know what it’s like to receive a diagnosis of renal failure and all that comes along with it.

I called and addressed him by his title and told him who I was. He stated that it was fine to be on a first-name basis. He asked about my experiences with dialysis, specifically the time it takes, different modes, and transplants. We spoke for 30-45 minutes and he asked if I was married. I said yes, he asked if my husband would mind if we spoke from time to time and I replied no he would not mind. Then he said, “Would you mind checking on me every once in a while? I’m married but my wife is having medical issues. I’ll need a caretaker and this may be too much for her, my son will be moving back to help me. He is doubtful about his eligibility for a transplant because he is 75. I advised him to make 2 appointments for listing, one in his state and the other out of state at a major hospital with the rate of success with renal transplants.

Age can be a factor to be a candidate for transplant. Other factors include the length of time on dialysis, and other comorbidities (cancer, obesity, infection, obesity, smoking). It’s always best to speak with your nephrology team.

“At the end, it’s not about what you have or even what you’ve accomplished. It’s about who you’ve lifted up, who you’ve made better. It’s about what you’ve given back.” Denzel Washington

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