I would not pay anything to go to the moon because I ddon’t have any interest in going. It’s too many unknowns for me.
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My cultural heritage
Daily writing prompt
What aspects of your cultural heritage are you most proud of or interested in?
I take great pride in our perseverance, our family, and our rich historical timeline. It is disheartening that some attempt to erase our impact on history, as this distorts our true narrative. We confidently turn to our elders, who play a crucial role in educating us about our heritage. I stand proud of all that we are, but most of all, I am immensely proud of our strength and our remarkable capacity to forgive.
Not Intentional
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Practicing Self Care
Practicing self-care is essential to me because without it, you end up losing yourself. I have several methods. I have grown accustomed to facials. I started getting them done around three years ago. My aesthetician plays relaxing music, uses beautiful scents, and creates a mood that is so relaxing that I fall asleep. I go every one to two months. I had no idea how wonderful she was until I went to someone else in the beginning. I was with a friend and noticed the glow of her skin, and she gave me her information. I had gone to someone else, and it was not a great experience. I also like caring for houseplants. I have about twenty of them, and they bring me peace. Finally, you should make yourself a priority, and nothing should get in the way of caring for yourself. It gives you the ability to be more effective and purposeful.
Cold Weather
I absolutely love cold weather because it brings a wonderful sense of calmness. Cooking comfort food during this chilly season is such a joy, and with the major holidays approaching, I get excited to decorate and celebrate festively!
Saying No
How often do you say “no” to things that would interfere with your goals? I haven’t always had this clarity, but I’ve come to realize the importance of protecting my peace when something doesn’t feel right or resonate with me. There’s a comforting strength in saying no without the need to justify myself, allowing me to avoid future regrets.
Non-traditional family: Lessons learned
I never thought about family traditions and would have initially said that we didn’t have any. I come from a large family of 7 children in a single-parent home. We were not traditional by any means, but she held our family together. My mom fed anyone that was hungry; she loved to entertain and make people feel good. I did not want to share her with outsiders. I didn’t realize until she died that she was the glue that held us together. We celebrated every major holiday, and during the summers, she made a fruit punch that we couldn’t get enough of.
My mom stepped up for quite a few of my friends. One of my friends graduated high school and had no one to be there for her. Mom went with balloons and had a cake at the house. My friend was so happy, and it was the sweetest thing. She did everything behind the scenes. She taught me the tradition of giving unselfishly and not expecting anything in return. It’s how I’m living my life.
The meaning of Lisa
My name is Lisa and it’s English and a derivative of Elisabeth. Lisa means consecrated to God, God is my oath, and God’s promise. It has a religious background in Christianity and Judaism. I was named after Nat King Cole’s song, Mona Lisa by my uncle. Mona Lisa originated from the famous Leonardo Da Vinci’s painting which means my lady, happy or jovial one. The name is also based on the assumption that the painting depicts Lisa del Giocondo. She was the wife of Francesco del Giocondo.
I only knew of the English version of my name and never looked into Mona Lisa. This was a fun prompt.
Daily writing prompt
Write about your first name: its meaning, significance, etymology, etc.
My mission in life
Mission: In a world where you can be anything, be kind. (Jennifer Dukes Lee)
As we go through life, we realize the simple things that create joy in others’ lives. It’s simple and fulfilling. I was in a supermarket. An elderly woman was telling me about her occupation before retiring. She shared how much she enjoyed her job working at Strawbridge & Clothier. I remembered the big chain store and its Clover Day and the great sales.
She told me that her daughter rushes her whenever she takes her to run errands. I noticed that she was dressed impeccably, as if she were still working. I smiled and admired her gift of painting her life for me. She smiled at me because I was genuinely listening. I helped her pick out some fruit, and we said our goodbyes. You can’t put a price on things like this. My mission is to make more connections. ❤️
The greatest gift
Time and attention are the best gifts someone can give me. Distractions during in-person or phone conversations make sharing difficult. This is reciprocal.
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